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JustKeepSwimming · 21/05/2009 08:19

Hi, I'm new to the SN boards but i know lots of you have seen/posted on my DS's EEG thread.

Attempt at brief history:

DS2 (16mo) 'normal' apart from sleeping lots from about 10months.
At 15months he had 2 'fits' in 2 days & 2 trips to a&e.
Then started 'nodding'/absences.

Had an EEG - abnormal result.
Had an MRI - bright spot seen.
Started on Epilim, at a quarter dose to build up slowly.

GOSH appt this week - very kind and helpful doc gave us lots of info, not sure we've processed it all yet.
An area about the size of a slice of a medium size tomato that did not develop in the womb.
Will not get bigger or go away.
Rest of brain should grow around it and take over whatever might have come from there.
His development is right on track and should continue.
He will not 'grow out' of it.
We can speed up the Epilim doses and get to the full dose next week.
Then give it 2/3 weeks. If no control, she wants us to change to Keppra.
If no control then she wants to discuss surgery.
(is prepared to discuss the keto diet first as she is a specialist in it & i am very interested in it)

DS2 seems to be getting worse recently, had another seizure this morning (only 30secs so not v bad), is certainly more tired, has big clusters of absences, is grumpy (previously never a grumpy baby) and so on.

His big seizures we were calling TCs but the doc doesn't think they are - looking at a leaflet from the hosp, think we could maybe call them Tonics. not really sure how to refer to them.

(sorry not brief at all!)

Anyway, all happened incredibly quickly, DH and I still in disbelief & shock. Though, we are trying to be positive and say, if we get control (with either drug) then we will just carry on as normal, thinking of it as something similar to diabetes/asthma. Doc was v insistent on not using it as an excuse not to do something.

Any tips, advice, support welcome.

thanks for reading this far!

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sarah293 · 20/12/2009 09:59

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fatzak · 20/12/2009 12:31

You know Riven, I am almost to the point now of asking to be referred for the keto diet if this latest med doesn't work rather than go through months of trying another only for it to fail I just think about how hard it will be at parties, Christmas etc for DS who already is standing out as different to the others for all sorts of reasons!

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feelingbetter · 20/12/2009 17:06

Hello JKS,
So glad to hear things are going OK. Am only about intermittently now thanks to Real Life (rather inconveniently) getting in the way, and a dropped laptop (roll on the New Year sales)- but we are still thinking of you and the little fella lots and hope you enjoyed your Christmas xx

JustKeepSparkling · 24/12/2009 18:54

Riven - Hi, sounds like Keto is doing the job for C
And isn't Charlie's story just amazing?!

FB - hey there, not seen you about on here much. Oops about the laptop, not good!

Well, surgery is over, yey

And H has been SF since!! (well Dh thinks he saw 1 absence yesterday but I'm not counting that as I have seen no evidence of anything else)

He's also been awake since 2am this morning, has only just settled down ready for sleep....am now starting to panic about what the future holds! am used to him sleeping up to 20hrs out of 24, eek!!

His left hand is still bothering him bigtime but hopefully it will ease. Hopefully being discharged on Sat, can't wait to get home.

4nomore · 25/12/2009 14:32

Whooo! Sorry JKS, you don't know me from Adam but I've been following your thread and I'm really pleased to see that the op went smoothly. Hope you all have a fab New Year!
x

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Mitchell81 · 25/12/2009 19:07

Merry Christmas, so glad that the op went well. Fingers crossed he goes from strength to strength.

JustKeepSparkling · 25/12/2009 19:12

Thank you, thank you, thank you & LOL 4nomore

Well....we are OUT! the surgeon came round this morning and basically said 'we're doing nothing for you right now, you may as well leave if you want'!!

So we are staying in London tonight just to be nearby but will head home in the morning.

H is in bed but chatting, not really sure if/when he'll decide to sleep and when/how we'll get him into any kind of routine. He's been awake since 8am. Tired at times but nowhere near napping.
& &

they took out his sleep button!

Mitchell81 · 25/12/2009 19:20

Aaah that is great news. So you got a wonderful christmas present after all. Hope you get some sleep

fatzak · 26/12/2009 09:49

That's wonderful that you are out!

Fingers crossed that H remains SF and finally goes to sleep

JustKeepSparkling · 06/01/2010 15:08

Hey everyone, sorry not been on before.

All is going unbelievably well x lots!

He is sleeping , has a nap after lunch & sleeps through, most nights.

He has been SF since the op
and is coming on a dream.

New things:

  • smiling & laughing
  • is ticklish
  • babbling (bababa started last night)
  • using his left hand to feed himself
  • making lots of eye contact
  • interested in picking up toys and chewing them
  • bashing some noisy toys
  • prob lots of other things...

All Very Good

A long way to go to get to his nearly-2yrs and we have an assessment at the SN centre next week.

Stitches came out today, due to go back to GOSH in about 6 weeks for a follow-up.

Can't really put into words how happy things are, even if tired/exhausted!

Mitchell81 · 06/01/2010 19:38

I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

feelingbetter · 06/01/2010 21:16

Wonderful!

fatzak · 07/01/2010 09:37

That's so wonderful. Your happiness and relief has made me cry Let's hope that things just go onwards and upwards for you now

Lauree · 07/01/2010 13:41

so glad to find this thread and hear all's going well... I had a look a few times over christmas but somehow I didn't get the latest news.
I'm so happy for you and H!

I can't believe that he's recovering so quickly and was doing new things so soon - it's truly fantastic news!

HAPPY New Year!

JustKeepSparkling · 07/01/2010 19:20

Thank you everyone

Today's new things:

  • walking getting steadier and steadier so by this evening was better than pre-op
  • and some mamamama noises this evening

Amazing how quickly the brain can get on with stuff, so surreal when we stop to think about it...

trace2 · 07/01/2010 19:25

this is great newsGin my friends dd is having this done this month !

JustKeepSparkling · 07/01/2010 19:28

Trace - send her this way is she wants to chat about any of it. I know i appreciated talking to others who'd been through it (in the States as I never found anyone UK-based). I'd be happy to talk through anything.

trace2 · 07/01/2010 19:32

i will try she is a gp her self and not joined this sight yet have tried telling her she waiting till she had her baby tbh i think she should have let dd have it first. they still not sure what she really having done yet either that or dont really want to know.

trace2 · 07/01/2010 19:34

have i got it wrong? what did they do? sounds like its worked.

trace2 · 07/01/2010 19:37

something about taking all the bad bit away is that what your ds had?

JustKeepSparkling · 07/01/2010 19:54

Pretty much - they decided that his right temporal lobe was never formed right from the womb, plus one other area. Their monitoring showed that all the abnormal activity started in the temporal lobe so have removed that, leaving the other bit (in the parietal lobe) as it never started anything, just responded to activity going on elsewhere.

Called an 'extensive temporal lobe resection'.

Get her on here asap!