Help needed a bit confused

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My ds 3.8 has mild cp and as a baby had sensory problem he was seen by a psychologist for I was concerned he might have autism but after observing him she came back saying although he carries some traits he has not got autism because he is very socialable but has behaviour problems to me he is very polite and well behaved what does she mean by that? advice pls Do you think it is sensory problem and how can I help him I really dont understand and am trying to make his anger a bit easier so he has less meltdowns

I do believe there is something wrong cannot accept certain things has certain routines, has difficulty in changes wont wear alot of the clothes only jeans and certain jumpers wont eat a variety of food is very limited and hates baths does not like noise and recently is having alot of meltdowns screaming and for the last 2 weeks has started to hit out, pinch and bite not being able to cool down. is this a toddlers trantrum or because of his sensory

Have you tried asking someone for a second opinion? When was it that you were told definately not autism? if it was some time ago its worth asking for a referral again to see what they say now perhaps

Possibly worth asking for a referral to the OTs. Sensory problems are common in CP and if they haven't been treated it could be one reason for sensory overload?
Ask the GP for a referral. At the very least they could rule it out as a reason for your concerns.
Good luck.

perhaps when she said that he had behaviour problems, she meant that some of his behaviour was inappropriate or atypical, rather than bad beahviour?

however, from what i've read, it's a bit of a myth that children with autism are not sociable: some are and some are not. i think a referral to an OT does sound like a good idea to deal with the sensory issues. also, if you feel that the psychologist may have been mistaken, then a referral to a developmental paediatrician might be the best course to take. they tend to have more experience of the wider range of children on the spectrum.

this site is full of really useful ideas of things you could do to help your ds with sensory issues.