hiya
Just joined Mumsnet and the first place I looked was for a conversation about special needs. I feel disappointed in myself for doing so because it shouldn't have been the first thing on my mind but i guess it's just nice to be in the loopwith other mums who might experience some of the stuff that goes hand in hand with having a child with special needs.
I just want to say that you really shouldn't be too worried for your friend who's new baby has Down's. It really isn't that huge a problem. He/she will walk, talk, be incredibly giving and joyful and go to a 'normal' school, and has the chance to gain qualifications, get a job, live independantly, but even if he/she doesn't manage some/all of those things, so what, they'll always have a child without all the worries of the world on their shoulders and a smile on their face (well most of the time!) People who meet Charlotte are bowled over by her, she laughs ALL the ime and is doinf really, really well, she's never given us a moments concern. Best of luck to you and your friend, she's actually very, very lucky.
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