Sorry for the long post.
I posted a thread on here back in Jan and we have now been referred to a consultant pedeatric nurologist at a childrens hospital for futher investigation.
Basically DS who is now 14 months is having problems with his right arm, he can move his arm, lift it up, can clap but his fine motor skills are practically none existant. If he is doing building blocks he will use his left hand for all of it, only using his right to kind of support the blocks but thats about it. Whilst doing all other activites he doesnt use it, whilst eating its as if he doesnt 'know' its there. After some advice from another mumsnetter (Hecatequeenofghosts thank you) i have been doing a little research. On our last appointment with the consultant orthopeadic (at the same hospital where DS was born)he said it wasnt muscle or bone its more likley to be pressure on his brain during birth or nerve problems or damage and pointed to the neck/shoulder area. I immediatly asked if it could be erbs palsy and he said unlikley as erbs points there arms inwards, didnt say yes or no and then kind of dismissed it. But we will see what these futher tests bring back once we get the appointment through.
My question is though, is nerve damage in the neck/shoulder area the same thing as erbs palsy or could it be something else?