I have recieved a response to my complaint, so have copied and pasted for you all.
Dear Amanda
Thanks for your e-mail regarding 'Comic Relief - Funny for Money'.
Firstly, I apologise for the delay in our reply. We know our correspondents appreciate a quick response, and it's a matter of regret to us that you've had to wait for so long on this occasion.
I'm sorry if you were offended by the content of the 'Outnumbered' sketch during 'Comic Relief - Funny for Money', I can assure you it is never the intention of the BBC to deliberately upset its audience.
Although a comedy, 'Outnumbered' has always tackled sensitive and complex subjects - such as bullying, fear of debt, special needs and coping with Alzheimer's. There certainly was no intention to insult anyone watching 'Comic Relief - Funny for Money'.
I'm sure that you will appreciate that the programme was being as funny as possible and certainly did not want to cause any offence to people with special needs. Indeed some of the £59,187,065 raised will be used to help fund projects for people with special needs. As I have a son with learning difficulties I do appreciate the strength of your feelings on this matter.
However as the BBC is a public service financed by the licence fee it must provide programmes which cater for the whole range of tastes in humour. We believe that there is no single set of standards in this area on which the whole of society can agree, and it is inevitable that programmes which are acceptable to some will occasionally strike others as distasteful. The only realistic and fair approach for us is to ensure that the range of comedy is broad enough for all viewers to feel that they are catered for at least some of the time.
I appreciate that you may continue to hold a different view so I've registered your complaint on our audience log. This is a daily report of audience feedback that's circulated to many BBC staff, including members of the executive board, channel controllers and other senior managers.
The audience logs are seen as important documents that can help shape decisions about future programming and content. All feedback we receive, whether positive or negative, is appreciated. We're committed to developing better links with our audience to further our understanding of your viewing and listening needs.
Thanks again for contacting the BBC.
Regards