Hi,
my ds is 9years old. When he was at nursery we felt there were issues as he wasn't joining in to "normal" school life as the other children. Our cry for help fellon deaf ears and was labelled a naughty boy. He went on the reception class where he was on the verge of exclusion due to his behaviour. luckly the parent partnership got involoved and ed phys and my son eventually got a referral to CAHMS where at 6 years old he got diagnosed with ADHD. I felt personally that it was more than this as i live with him i could see the abnomalities that i felt weren't right but when you get to speak to a consultant for 30mins every blue moon they feel they have a better picture of your child.My son was seeing so many proffessionals pedeotricians, occupational theropy, ed phys.My son is now at a pru school after 2 mainstream schools failed him, and he is now in the process of being reinstated to his 3rd mainstream school. This time i feel happier about this as it has been done correctly a SNA has been advertised and appointed just for my son as he has a full time statement. His previous mainstream school cut costs and found memebers of staff already in the school not specialised to meet my sons needs (so no wonder it failed).
CAHMS have let me down in a big way to as i was trying to tell the consultant my fears about my Ds lack of social skills and she put it down to a develpmental problem and he would catch up. Eventually she must of got sick of hearing my voice and she put my Ds up for some one to one adult/play sessions over 3 weeks 1 hour a week. This came back that there were severe delays in the way he socialises and plays and he then qualified for a ADOS test. My consultant advised that this would be a waste of time as she felt he wouldn't score hight enough and that the best i would be looking at would be a diagnosis of PDD-NOS which in her opinion is another label my Ds really didnt need as it would help him in his education. i ignored her and said i still wanted him to have it done. She told me there was a long waiting list and it would be April this year by the time his name would come up. Itold her this is fine and we were prepared to wait. I am lucky to have family connections in the social services line of work and she has good working relations with the head Ed physc of our area when he heard of my battle he said he couldnt get directly involved but could offer advise when ever he could. This did get back to my consultant who was dis pleased that i knew the head ed physc. I spoke to him just after christmas as i am a SNA in a nursery and he was he came in to see the little boy i was supporting he couldnt believe the waiting list for my Ds for his ADOS.
Suddenly 2 weeks later i get a phone call from CAHMs saying there had been a cancelation and do i want it i jumped at it.l I dodn't know if this was arranged for me or if it was a general cancelation but i felt "there is a god after all" .
My ds had his ADOS on Tuesday. He had the Module 3, he scored highest points in 2 sections and a couple of points in the 1st section. It was a different consultant to who we have which i was grateful for as i felt it was a independent view.
it was the consultant and a tester and my Ds in the room and me and my mum were in the next room watching him on a tv screen it wasnt taped. They did all the activities mentioned for module 3 and then we went back in the room where he explained hius findings. He mentioned he doesnt take his desisions lightly and can only go off what he had seen in the room that day and the scorings, plus the notes from my DS records and the ADOS tick charts that i had to do and his PRU school and mainstream school had to fill out.He mentioned that he had read how our consultant had mentioned that she felt it was a PDD-NOS and that he valued her opinion but strongly disagreed with it as he felt it was more severe and it was ASD. I am now waiting for the report and the dreaded meeting i have to face with ds consultant. I am presuming he has a diagnosis of ASD as i have so much on websites that my mind is now boggled as on some sights PDD-NOS is ASD ???