What schools often forget is that the parents have an awful lot of legal powers re: Statemented children.
J's school had spoken ('informally' ) to the local EBD school about moving him there, and this is why I'm guessing they kept hold of the reports until the last minute. But they were being silly because it's not up to them where he goes, nor is it up to the EBD school, nor is it up to the ed. psych. It's up to the LEA and the parents. The LEA MUST name the parents' school of choice unless it is unsuitable for the child's age or needs or unless the child's place there would compromise other children's efficient education. So J is staying where he is!
If a child has been assessed as OK for mainstream, it would normally take a re-assessment or a dramatic change of circumstances for a change to be made without parental consent.
I did freak after the most recent review because the school were so adamant that J should move and got the ed psych and behaviour team onside, but it will not be happening (the LEA have amended and re-issued his statement and added 5 hours on top of the 33 he already gets, for liaison time etc. as the school were whinging about having not enough time-and have named his current school )
Had they gone with the school's recommendation and tried to move him, I would have appealed to Tribunal which would have taken 6 months, during which they could not move him. I'd also have pointed out that nobody has ever queried appropriateness of mainstream before.
I am angry with the school but am getting used to this Statement thing being like a war - you can't get comfortable as a stay bullet might just hit you!
Slightly crumpled, sorry to worry you. EPs always come to J's reviews too, and not necessarily to say anything or do anything, just because he's a complex case. I don't think EP attendance is necessarily a sign of anything - maybe it's different in mogwai's area. As I say, reviews can result in better provision!
Would be worth getting any reports in advance from school because then you know what people are thinking before the meeting and can prepare your points of agreement/ disagreement.