J is 10 with AS. He's on home tution at the moment, and due to start secondary in sept. Have given lots of though to where he should go then, and have found 2 possibles - one special, one MS, the plan being to dual register him with a gradual transition to MS from the special school. There was only one place in the city I believe to be absolutely and completely unsuitable for J and that is the EBD school. Everyone is very clear on my views about this.
On Tuesday there was a reivew meeting of J's home tution (which is normal and happens every couple of months), to which I was invited but couldn't attend as it conviniently clashed with school pick up for my other 2 DCs. When I asked for the meeting to be changed I was brushed off with it was just a review of his tution, not to worry blar blar, which I stupidly accepted. J's psychologist from CAMHS (who supports me over the EBD school) was also invited but only 2 hours before so obviously was unable to attend.
Today the lady who co-ordinates tution phoned me to tell me the outcome of the meeting (which it now transpires consisted of the SEN team, the SENCO from the MS I have asked for, someone from the EBD - and not just the ususal cosy chat between J's tutor and home tution co-ordinater). She told me it had been decided that J's tution will be moved to the EBD school after easter with a view to him attending there in Sept.
I am absolutely furious about this. I don't know what to do now! He isn't going there ever, I don't believe and EBD school is the place for any autistic child full stop, and certinally won't be sending my son.
What do I do now?? My immediate reaction was to go and get some legal advice from a solicitor, but Im worried about the cost, Im a single parent and don't have much money.
Any advice really really appreciated.