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Just encountered another child being mean to my disabled girly - first time.

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HangingbaublesofBethlehem · 25/11/2008 15:52

DD2 is 2.8 and uses a walking frame. She walks to and from the car when we drop dd1 off at school and can manage short distances quite well.

At school there is a big wooden pirate ship play thing and today before the children came out dd went to play on it - the entrance is a ramp so she was able to walk up. Another little boy then overtook her and shouted 'ha, ha I beat you' - fair enough. There were then some steps up to the top bit and I helped dd up with her frame - the same boy stood at the top and said 'you can't come up here' - I just said 'of course she can' and helped her up. He then put her hands on her frame and said 'I'm gonna push you down all those steps' . I gave him the eye and said 'no you will not' firmly. He then proceded to grab and try to push the frame but luckily it was time to pick up dd1 so we just walked away. Mother no where to be seen of course..

It just hit me in life that for all of the children out there who are great and think dd's frame is cool (little girls in particular love her little pink basket and bell) there are going to be some little thuglets who use it as an excuse to pick on her..

He looked more or less the same age as dd2 so I hope they don't end up in the same class when dd starts school. I shall have to teach the girl some Cerebral Palsy Ninja moves I think .

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EffiePerine · 25/11/2008 15:56

It might be general aggression rather than targeted at your DD - DS gets shoved around occasionally (though it doesn't worry him, he's only scared of small girls shouting, so train up your DD's bossy instincts )

SammyK · 25/11/2008 16:07

he sounds horrid!

Your dd and her frame sound lovely, you will always get the odd horrid child, but I find most young children are very accepting of children's differences, I'm sure when she starts nursery she will make lots of lovely little friends.

2shoes · 25/11/2008 16:17

do agree spinds like he was just being a mean boy. I doubt he even registered your dd's sn.
I found they are fine until secondry(apart from the %%%% up the road)

Tclanger · 25/11/2008 16:38

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HangingbaublesofBethlehem · 25/11/2008 16:40

the thing is that in the time this was all going on 2 other little kids joined them and he didn't say a thing to them. Agree though he probably would have been a mini-thug whatever, he looked mean for a 3 year old.

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wannaBe · 25/11/2008 16:41

he sounds just like a horrible little brat to me. I imagine he's like that with all children that get in his way.

Tbh at that age I think it doesn't really register why children are different, and although he will have seen the frame he probably doesn't realize that she needs it to help her walk - to him it's just a part of another child iyswim.

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