hi hunnybun,
My ds (now age 5) used to go crazy for milk, he wanted it constantly. He drank it through the night as he woke and screamed the house down until we gave it to him. We did notice that the more he drank the more he wanted.
Like you I also read about the a1/a2 milk and decided to give goats milk a try - I drank it too, really there isnt much difference. Honestly you wouldnt beleive how much he changed and how fast it happened. The first night after having goats milk he never woke up for more (first time ever) - the following night he said he didnt want any milk. I was shocked, but happy as it seemed to curb his craving.
2 days after stopping cows milk i noticed that he had better eye contact, better fine motor control (no shaky hand), happier, more cuddly (cound bear this before). Most of all I noticed that his morning conjestion cleared up (it was really bad before), constipation went away and his excema went away.
Dont get me wrong i dont think that Milk alone is the problem, i think it is multiple problems, but i would definatly reccomend trying goats milk.
We no longer buy goats milk. DS has NEVER had a cup of milk since. He still eats regular cheese, yoghurt and other milk products, but just in moderation. I think that his poor little digestive system was so clogged up when he was drinking all the milk. He does seem to be able to tolerate small amounts of milk products now.
After witnessing such dramatic changes I decided to put this story on the internet. you can find it at www.lynnesweb.co.uk - without the internet i would have never known about any interventions.
I find that the worst milk product that causes an obvious reaction is Ice-cream, it sends him bonkers.
Good luck - and feel free to ask me if you want to know anything else.