These seem to be the areas that ds2 (coming up to 6yrs old) struggles most with. His spoken language is now good but the gap between his receptive and expressive language is getting larger all the time. The SALT has been sending stuff to work on with ds2 and there has been some progress but it's occurred to me that I really don't know all that much about this area.
Ds2 can now just about cope with 3-part instructions but this is a very recent development and he's still quite shaky on it. Individually he seems to understand each part but if put together as a "Do X then Y then Z" he finds it hard. He will remember the X and the Z but the Y will usually be forgotten iyswim. He has a very good visual memory, almost bordering on photographic sometimes, but his auditory memory is poor.
He also has big gaps missing in his comprehension skills. I hadn't realised quite how much was missing until I started doing the SALT stuff with him. I have no idea how he's managed to work around it all before now but he seems to have found his own coping strategies.
His teacher has been following the SALT's advice to break instructions down and check that ds2 has understood but with people in general I've found that the better ds2's expressive language gets the more difficult it seems to be to convince them that he doesn't necessarily understand when they speak to him.
I've tried googling for information on this area but keep getting bogged down by it all. Does anyone have any information in general or recommendations for books, websites etc?