should staff be allowed to discuss us

[saint2shoes]

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on countless threads I have seen the oh so and works with dc's with sn, and then they use something(usually negative) to bolster their argument.
Imo IT IS DISGUSTING TO THINK THAT STAFF(oops) discuss our burdens outside of school to all and sundry and pisses me of when people use these "facts".
what do you think??

actually I'm feeling grumpy about that thread. Realised today that congratulating dd at using the 'big girl hoist' to have her nappy changed was actually bloody awful.
And now a thread to list all the stuff she can never experience.
crap day.

thats why I posted my things

I'm just grumpy. Should change my name from Saint cos I'm not feeling saint like. Just tired and generally grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr at the world.

don't please I love this saint thing.

I've noticed its just us in this exclusive club though. The other bah humbugs haven't joined in....

Can I join? I sort of have already so please don't say no!

I would but I don't feel I can since I often wish there were things I could change about ds. I love him to bits and wouldn't want to lose who he is but if I'm honest I have to say i really wish he didn't have such complex behavioural needs and I definitely wish he didn't have the aggression and violent meltdowns

saintvicsta
I wish everyone on the sn board would. we get called saints all the time(saintgeorge of course can be an honorary member)

starting wonder if I should add a Munchausens in front of my name rather than a saint, as according to DS's teacher he doesn't have a language problem at all

dustystar that is normal, but you still are saintdustystar

Thanks 2shoes. I guess I read yours and others posts on the SN board about not wanting to change their children at all and I feel guilty that I don't feel quite the same.

Just had to check my posts to make sure I am not guilty, and I think that they are all so general that no one could identify their child from what I have said.

supportman I think you are like the staff at dd's respite place, dedicated.
I am sure you wouldn't do such a thing. It is normaly someone posting that their freind/sister/neighbour/great aunt/dog works with dc's with sn and told the something.

Howzat 2shoes?

didnt work- damnation!

tis better

my almighty intellect performs quicker than mn pmsl

ooo get you and you posh extra bits.
Dustystar, while I am of course a saint etc, if a cure was announced for cerebral palsy that would have dd running and talking I'd do it tomorrow. Acceptance doesn't mean we'd rather not see our kids have problems.

No of course not riven I realise that I've just got my guilty mummy head on at the moment. I try to be rational and tell myself that its not my fault that ds had difficulties and i do all I can but every now and then the guilt bug comes and bites me on the arse and makes me feel like shit. Then I berate myself for getting angry and frustrated with him and feel ashamed for resenting all the sacrifices we have to make. I've had a cold for a month and both ds and dd have had sickness bugs this week so I am exhausted and run down. Once I shake thise bloody cold and get some sleep I will be back to a more Saintlike supermummy

Does anyone know why it is that these sickness bugs always seem to be at their worst in the middle of the night I could cope no problem with copious vomiting during the day but its always in the middle of the night!

I still struggle with knowing that dd would be 'normal' if I'd had a c-section.