is this normal for as child? new class, am heatbroken

[trace2]

ds is being tested for as but this morning he is a new class, new teacher, took him him he as been looking forward to go back, so when i took him in they usaly put slippers on , was told not to, he went in to a frenzy ,didnt want to stop, they dragged him of me crying and i was told to go,

am sat here crying it was horrible, will he be ok, this is class 3 hes in, will he do this every time? sorry just so worried about him

and i know there is some horrible boys in there who will bully him and call him cry baby because they all saw him

thanks its an app with teacher! he as no help at all hes been classed as the quiet child who sits at back of class and does not get involved, last year when we went in about any concerns we was told hes strong minded child who dont need help but yesterday he says he put is hand up to answer a question, took him 3 years.

i must say thank you for all the advice you keep giving its such a big help

I'll be glad when this week is over...no proper school today as DD is going to two schools this year and one of them doesn't start until next week.
Trace2, horseriding was great (see comments about nice teacher - that was riding not school) but I think poor DD is really struggling with French after 6 weeks just English.
She's back in French school tomorrow. I haven't actually been able to talk to her teacher...don't know if she actually realises DD has SEN. We're in the process of getting her registered / statemented, but it can take a while here (don't think they'll say no, just don't think they'll say yes for a few months because of the paperwork!). In the meantime, she gets no help, in a class of 30 kids, speaking French. TBH she just sits quietly at the back doing her own thing...
The other school she goes to is English and they only have 15 kids so although still MS has got to be easier than the French one, but the French one is more important because that's where she'll be long term. School isn't compulsory here until 6 (although everyone starts at 3) so I'm just trying to spend this year getting all the structures in place by next year when she's going to have to start learning something proper! She's also supposed to be starting some more therapy (she's been referred to a sort of psychology centre) but I've not been able to get hold of them yet to see what they can offer / do. It's all kind of complicated and I'm trying to get my head around it!! Will let you all know how we get on tomorrow...
Glad to hear minitrace is answering questions, and that miniclanger survived his first day (love the idea about being seven to go into year seven LOL)

Oh yeah, except now teacher has thrown a spanner in the works saying that it's "just not possible" for DD to go to two schools. Says she can't work with her for two days a week and that she needs to choose one school or the other. We ARRANGED everything in June and now she doesn't like what she has to deal with! Trouble is, I need her on my side...Don't know what to DO!

BriocheDoree oh on so sorry hope it gets sorterd!

wellits today am meeting teacher at 3 330 ill let you allknow what happens am so scared

Good luck trace!
I just spoke to DD's teacher and the head of the school. They both feel it will be too disruptive for her to go to two schools at once. TBH they sounded perfectly reasonable, and they might well have a point. So, I've spoken to the other school and they've said they'll get back to me. As always, I don't mind what's we end up deciding, I just wish I knew what was the BEST thing to do. You know, eternal SN dilemma...do you just leave things as they are and hope they improve or do you drag your poor child to endless meetings and evaluations and different teachers / therapists in the hope that somewhere along the line some of it helps them!

Brio sorry to here that

well we home met ds teacher she seems nice but sheas addmitted some knows nothing about As or met any kids with it( but shes a sn teacher) she says hes well behaved and bright and sits still and not noticed ant thing any diffrent from him, i asked if he as looked in her eyes as he dont any one, she says shes never noticed she as 30 kids to look after( which i understand)

but he was the kid we have at home would not get of my knee in my face would not shut up, she then says shes never seen him like this in class when he did get of he got a jigsaw i said watch he will not leave till hes done it right, he left it went a walk round class she said hes left it i said watch he will come back in seconds i could see there was two peicers missing he looked on floor for them he came back to finish it he cxarnt leave it unfinished we had to tell him he could not finish it ,which took 10 mins.

so we told her what hes like at home and shes going to ask head teacher what happens when hes dx if hes dx.

do we have tro wait for dx?