Hi Upwind,
Just dropped in for a quick lurk after a crap day at work. Am not about much as I am a bit under the weather myself, but I'm glad I saw this today (Thank you for explaining Hairy ) as I wouldn't want to ignore you. I remember how hard it was having no information. Still haven't got much!
DS is still doing well and he is now 9 months old. It has been very much a case of 2 steps forward, 1 step back, but overall he has already exceeded many expectations. At 6 weeks they told us he would not smile or have any interaction with us or the world really, he would never crawl or walk or talk. What we had at 6 weeks was basically it. His pattern of brain damage meant that he had a 50% chance of epilepsy and 50% chance of blindness. He has suffered from infantile spasms (cleared now after numerous drug failures) and has epilepsy which, fingers crossed, seems to be under control at the moment. He has a severe visual impairment, but we are working very hard to stimulate that.
Now he is a great smiler and giggler, and an amazing flirt. He can hold his head up well and his control is getting better every day. He can weight bear which he loves, and he bounces in his jumparoo (see profile pics for evidence!). He is desperately trying to turn over and gets very frustrated as his motor skills are very delayed, yet he keeps trying (very proud mum emoticon). He has just started to sit up well with support, and can manage a few seconds unaided. He has only recently found the use of his hands after many months of encouragemnet by us, which is wonderful but a nightmare at medication time! He is also VERY vocal and can make a variety of sounds. He can eat lumpy food, but is not too fond of drinking out of a beaker/cup yet.
I have had some wonderful support, help and advice from everyone on this board, so I am glad you have found it. As frustrating as it is, nobody knows what the future holds for your DD (I still get very annoyed about it), it is a case of wait and see.
I second the advice of Pixie DO NOT GOOGLE - I've done loads and it means nothing. Also, throw away hide any developmental books. When I stopped looking at the milestones and realised that DS would do whatever he could whenever he was able, I was much happier!
We were also very lucky to have had physio from 10 weeks and OT and portage have just kicked in too. Make sure you are getting all the help you and DD are entitled to. I am very grateful for the fact that we have had a great deal of support from the NHS without too much hassle.
I am a bit unwell at the mo, so won't be around much, but if you want to e-mail me at any time, please do. Its vickyhowells1976atyahoodotcodotuk
Congratulations on the birth of your daughter, I'm sure that despite your concerns, worries and fears she will make you incredibly happy and very proud. I know my DS has. He started private nursery this week as I have returned to work. He loves it and they all love him as he is such a laid back, happy boy. He's been there 4 days now, and he has cried 3 times when I've picked him up, but only once when I dropped him off but .
Good Luck xxxx