thought this was a good article, made up with advice from kids themselves www.ican.org.uk/TalkingPoint/Parent%20Point/Age%20Related%20Information/11%20to%2016/Dealing%20with% 20Bullies%20and%20Bullying/Advice%20from%20a%20Group%20of%20Young%20People%20with%20Communication%20 Difficulty%20Attending%20Mainstream%20Schools.aspx