AIBU to expect DDs school to tell me straight away when

[twocutedarlings]

They sent her to see the headteacher?

DD (5 AS in reception) was sent to the head teachers office today .

The only reason i know about it cos she told me about it. Her usual teacher doesnt work wednesday afternoons and its one of the higher level TAs that takes the class (along with 3 other TAs) I smiled at her (TA) when i collected DD and she never said a bloody dicky bird to me .

Im so upset, DD has bitten one of the TAs this is unlike her, she is very rarely violent in any way. Infact the only other time she has bitten anyone was when a little girl at school just wouldnt leave her alone, she kept trying to help her, constantly grabing her by the hand ect.

Obviously i need to speak to her teacher in the morning, but im just so angry im afraid i might lose it, I almost did with DD tbh.

I would expect to be told. when dd got told of by the head, he put a note in her diary. I wasn't impressed as felt he should have rung me. but at least he told me.

Just checked no note in diary, well reading book. Still not got home/school book that i asked for 6 weeks ago .

I'm with 2shoes. I got called in after school to see the teacher when ds got sent to the head. It's not on to leave you worrying till tomorrow, could you ring the school and speak to the head now, they should still be there.