My daughter born at 36+6 last year failed her 15 month review. She doesn’t always make the best eye contact, she is motor delayed, didn’t sit until 10-11 months, didn’t crawl until 13 months and is only just starting to stand with support and stand her back legs up with her arms on the floor herself now at 16 months. Obviously they correct her age still so it’s more 15 months. She doesn’t respond to her name without context (explained below). She doesn’t copy gestures often and she babbles but it’s repetitive usually “baba” she’ll use different tones and she will shout “ahhh”. She seems to stim a little but only when excited and it’s like her arms shake and her legs too. She will engage but only if we sing, if you’re and you know it, 5 little ducks and sometimes twinkle twinkle little star. She’ll smile at us. She also responds if I say “name goes clap clap clap” “name wave” or “name…peekaboo” again she’ll stop what she’s doing to look and smile at us and she’ll keep smiling and looking until we’re done. when we smile at her sometimes she’ll smile back but not always. She’s very interested in exploring and she loves to roll toys along. That’s the only way she plays. She can feed herself with a spoon and hold her cups, drink from a straw no problems. Health visitor came out last Thursday and said she doesn’t have her pincer grasp but since I’ve watched her and she has got it. Anyways health visitor came out and made referrals for everything, audiology, portage, iscan, physio. Anyway. I’m worried obviously. The health visitor said she wasn’t too concerned and a lot of her skills can be worked on she said she was mostly concerned about the lack of eye contact. What were the signs your children showed at my daughters age and did they lead to diagnosis? Thank you😊