My 5 year old (diagnosed autistic) has been invited to his first birthday party next week. He’s in reception in a mainstream school. The party is in a local hall.
I am filled with such anxiety over it. He struggles to regulate and is very emotional. I fear it will just be a disaster. He won’t understand that the presents aren’t his, he won’t cope with party games, he will want to bring his special interest toys and will get upset about the food. He doesn’t hold back and I’m concerned he’s going to ruin the party. Not his fault I know!
The birthday boy is very sweet and kind towards him. But this week he has misread a few situations with him and pushed/chased him thinking they are playing a game. The mum seems understanding though.
My mum thinks he isn’t ready and we should wait for his social understanding to improve. I feel like I should give it a chance but at the same time, I don’t think he will enjoy it and I don’t want to affect the child’s party.
Has anyone got any positive stories they can share?