Hi OP,
I was in your exact same position in the spring and funnily enough our LA gave the same reason for my DS (5 next month) who is non verbal, suspected GDD and ASD.
Give yourself a few days to process, it’s bloody heartbreaking when you get a refusal, I remember crying and feeling so deflated after. Then when you’re ready, go through the appeal process - you have 30 days to challenge it.
This is my experience with the EHCP process so far:
November 2023 the nursery and myself submitted an application for an EHCP.
February 2024: No response so I contacted the LA who then told me the application was with a case worker but they couldn’t tell me how long it would be for a decision.
A week later: application refused
March 2024: I contacted mediation (Ipsea.org.uk) to request a mediation certificate and in the mean time started completing the SEND35A form.
April 2024: I received the mediation certificate (you have an additional 30 days from the date of receiving this to submit the appeal) to say the LA do not have the capacity for mediation, and I sent off the appeal with additional evidence from my sons SENCO, an additional IEP, and SLT report from the NHS.
May 2024: I receive a tribunal date which is set for March 2025….. no it’s not a typo.
June 2024: I receive an email from the LA to say they have overturned the original decision and agreed on a yes to asses.
July 2024: An Educational Psychologist completed an assessment and sent it back to the LA to be reviewed.
My son started primary school last week and his school have been incredible, the SENCO contacted the LA before the 6 weeks holiday but still not response.
Hope this helps and isn’t too overwhelming. 💐💐💐 💐