So today I was at a secondary school event for my ds who y5 9 years old he’s awaiting asd assessment just been referred and excepted on to waiting list. He presents as extremely hard working and well behaved in school if a bit anxious. In reality he has lots of sensory issues, no social skills, extremely rigid thinking no real friends sounds like he has a great vocabulary but actually he just repeats things he reads in books but doesn’t really understand them. He cannot tie his shoe laces has never opened a cupboard or the fridge and won’t even get him self a drink despite encouragement any way the list could go on he cannot take certain lights and noises and requires ear defenders a lot and is extremely rule following to the point if a stranger asked him to do something he most likely would.
So today at this event I got speaking to Sen advocacy group for the borough I’m in and they’ve took my details and said they believe we should apply for ehcp and they will help and we don’t need school support but I’m not sure there is much of a point is there as he presents so well in school they will not support the only people who might help are the Camhs workers who assessed him for help in school and then convinced the school to send the asd assessment after years of me asking and meeting with Senco and being told no. anyone have any experience ehcp for a child doing well in school.