DD is 9, year 4. Autism, ADHD and significant anxiety. Full EHCP and full time 1-1 provision in mainstream.
This is all complicated by the fact she loves school. She is hugely anxious about missing school, because she misses content and then she won't know what to do. I sometimes wonder if she loves the idea of school but the reality of school is overwhelming her. In class around 2/3rds of the time.
Her anxiety has been horrendous this academic year. She's much more socially aware and very aware of things she finds difficult.
Had her AR last week and school said they can confidently meet her needs. We had specialist agreed in year 1 but there was nowhere really suitable for her and I opted to keep her in mainstream. She was causing school a problem then but since has become much more internal and generally doesn't cause them a problem. She might get shouty/cross/upset once or twice a day but this doesn't display as behaviours just vocally.
I'm not so convinced they are meeting her needs, but they were very clear they are.
Would I even be able to suggest that they are not meeting her needs?