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[Jambuttie]

Oh I need to vent my rage sorry

DT1 (4) being assesed for ASD wanted to go to the wee park seconds from my door with his twin and big brother. Normally I don't allow it unless either myself or DH is there to supervise but as many people tell me I need to let them be kids and play.

So anyway today the 2 boys went to the wee park where some other kids were there and they were all playing together- think some where playing knights or summit.

Anyway DT1 see one of the toy swords on the ground and after watching the others play the game hit a wee lad witht he sword. Wee lads mum asked why he hit him and quite right too but he DT1 was oblivious to him hitting the lad said it was knights game he was sworded. So not only does the mum scream at him( again I dont blame her as I would be the same) but the uncle and the squad of kids in the house.

My 3 came home and told me what went on again DT1 said I was only swording him doesnt realise he hit him I was livid.

I was going to go explain DT1 behaviour etc but as hubby said why do we need to explain- however what I dont want now is for DT1 being picked on etc if he's there again

Phewwwwww cheers for listening to my rant

the boys mum "screamed" at a 4yr old wtf thid she cut her sons head off!!
I wouldn't be explaining anything to her but keeping my ds away from her.

I don't have a child with asd(cp here) but did find it helped when ds's freinds mum told me her son had aspergers. as I "knew" something was "different" but not what. the moment she told me it mad sense and helped me to understand her ds.

Havent even seen the wona or the rest of them since it happened cowards eh shout at a child then hide away

If they think it's okay to scream at a 4yr-old child then it's likely that knowing about his likely ASD would make no difference to their attitude whatsoever. Ignorant b*ggers!

I hope your DT1 is okay, bless him. xx

I decided a few months ago now that my DS who is 7 just isnt safe to go out alone and play. its a sad fact but i found my DS was getting bullyed by children who knew which buttons to press with DS (suspected ASD although having to really fight to get it recognised)Also found the fact DS has no social skills or understanding of socially acceptable behaviour a huge problem.

Yeah it's a wee shame DT1 genuinely thought he was playing game like the rest bless hm