Dd is currently in mainstream reception. She has been diagnosed with asd and speech delay. We always knew she would go to special school but didn’t have her EHCP in place before she started reception.
Her current school have suggested we name a provision for severe learning difficulties. The school we had in mind is moderate learning difficulty but the school have observed her in current setting and determined her needs too severe as she is self directed and has a 1:1 at her current setting. They didn’t have any conversations with us.
I’m disappointed because I really thought the school we picked would be great for her.
We have really struggled to get any support in place for her and thought at the right setting she could thrive.
We’ve not managed to get much speech therapy or OT, so she really does need that support in place to help with her learning.
She also really struggles to focus and listen to what she’s supposed to be doing and can be extremely hyperactive and I do wonder if she should also have an ADHD diagnosis.
At home she can follow instructions and she’s been doing some number and phonics exercises with us but none of this is happening at school.
I just wonder if they aren’t judging her accurately and they definitely seem keen to get her into any special school asap - which I don’t blame them for as she is taking up the it TA resources currently. I just want her in the right school and if that’s the SLD school, that’s fine but I don’t want to be forced into the decision by people who don’t know her. Any advice would be great.