DD1 often brings home little "achievement certificates" in her school bag. Most of them are a bit ho-hum, there's clearly a lot of creative thinking goes on in school to be able to claim "progress"
But this one is pretty exciting.
"Well done to DD1 for choosing to go on the computer by patting it"
So a) she chose between activities and b) she communicated a preference in some way.
With DD1 there's a huge difference between the things that she does once only and the things she does on a regular basis - so it's not as if she'll be choosing what she wants for lunch in the near future . But all the same, it might mean she is "getting it".
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