I thought I'd ressurect this, to give an update on dd1.
It is now just about 2 months that we have been giving dd1 supplements.
The results, although not exactly miracles are nonetheless measurable and remarkable.
Drinking: dd1 now drinks (she never used to. at all). Today, she has had 300+ml of pear/pinapple juice, 1/2 an ellas house smoothie, and some chocolate rice milk. For her to be drinking the pear/pineapple juice is staggering, but for her to ask for (and then drink) other drinks is just amazing.
Eating: dd1 has made some good progress with eating. She is still quite restrictive with her main meals, but she is more and more willing to eat snacky type foods, so will now eat crackers (and for the first time today ate a cracker with a tiny smear of coconut butter on it), nuts (hazelnuts are her favourite) and rice cakes seem to be back on the agenda. Still working on sandwiches, but you can't have everyhting, I suppose
General personality: dd1 is expressing herself more and more at pre-school. She is joining in more activities, and following more instructions. all her workers are very pleased with her, and last week she walked over to a member of staff whowas bouncing a ball, grinned, and pinched the ball off her. Then played throwing/rolling games for a good while with the staff member . She has twice gone to wash her hands all by herself when she has finished painting (she is normally extremely passive and totally prompt dependent)
speech: is getting ever more clear. she ahs, in the past week said to me "want to play ball", and just yesterday said "I'd like a hug". She usually only uses echolalic language, so would normally have said "let's play ball" or "come and have a hug"
All in all, she is doing brilliantly, and she even asks to have her vitamins which I though would be one of the tricky aspects(in fact, she is pestering me for them now so I'd better go lol)