Hoping that someone might be able to shed a little light on the process for establishing diagnosis, support, reasonable adjustment etc for a child with additional learning needs within a mainstream private sector primary.
DS7 is in Year 2 in a small mainstream private primary school - he has always struggled with fine motor/ co-ordination skills and handwriting/ pencil control etc has been a concern from day 1 tbh. School has recommended weekly support from an occupational therapist since the beginning of Year 1 - this is fine and we have paid for this ourselves.
It’s becoming apparent as he gets older that the handwriting thing is still quite severe (it’s not much better than his 4 year old brother’s) and crucially is accompanied by some issues surrounding impulse control and attention span. He is very bright and reads beautifully, has intense focus on certain topics (history, sea creatures) and retains a vast amount of facts on these areas. He talks constantly and adores people. His occupational therapist is of the view that it’s ‘not just handwriting’ and that he needs a proper diagnosis and targeted support.
All absolutely fine. We aren’t diagnosis for the sake of it people but would be keen for him to get the support he needs (and reasonable adjustment when it comes to exams including secondary school entry). We can see how diagnosis would be helpful here.
Coming to the point: no one seems to be able to tell me how the various parts of the puzzle come together for this for a child NOT in the state sector. I keep being told things like ‘in the state sector the school would arrange for an educational psychologist’ and ‘the school needs to have a regular cycle of support plans and reviews to keep a paper trail for statutory support’ - but no one seems to be able to tell me the degree to which this works in the private sector.
We don’t have limitless money but would be in a position to pay for a private assessment/ review by an educational psychologist. But I keep having it suggested by various professionals that an NHS diagnosis is ‘good standard’ in terms of negotiating reasonable adjustment and that as such private clinics are of limited use. I also can’t get my head around if he might potentially be entitled to statutory support (dedicated TA time for example) within a private school.
Well done if you read this far! Would be grateful for any advice.