DS almost 4, preschool have written his EHCP assessment and it reads horribly. I know they have to write it negatively for assessments and funding to be considered etc but there is just so much mention of how he can’t control his emotions, can’t follow instructions, hugely hyperactive, doesn’t play with the other kids, the gap is widening between him and his peers. It kills me. I worry constantly about how school will be for him, how life will be for him. He has huge disinhibited behaviour around strangers but particularly men he doesn’t know - he will try and hold their hand and call them daddy, and try to cuddle them. I have no idea why. His dad lives with us, although I’m much more hands on than him their relationship is fine. He has absolutely no danger awareness - you can explain to him over and over again don’t run into the road, don’t approach dogs, don’t touch sharp things, and he will do it over and over again. He is obsessed and I do mean obsessed with numbers, I cannot get him to engage in much else other than number based activities. He has tantrums all the time when he can’t get his own way about something, admittedly not like it used to be (full scale uncontrollable meltdowns for half an hour at a time). I’m just so depressed with it. I worry he will be bullied. I worry he will become either a shut-in who doesn’t leave home and forge a life for himself and will be totally lost when I’m gone, or he will be so desperate for a peer group he falls in with a bad crowd who exploit him. I can’t give my daughter any attention because he shouts over whatever we are talking about or I have to abandon whatever we are doing to stop him doing something unsafe. Is it ever going to get better.