oh yes, been here before myself.
ds,s original psych was all set to recommend that ds be statemented, she even said so in front of the lea at a multi discliplinary meeting.
next thing im being told that ds isnt having his AS dx,d and that we need to do a "parenting course"
so i told her to eff off and got a private psych on board.
someone who i know who is privy to my lea told me off the record that the lea had written to the psych,s boss and gone mad saying how dare she recommend provision.
i also wrote to the psych,s boss and asked for ALL medical reports, copies of everything and asked for an explanation of why ds couldnt have his dx of AS based on the ADOS, (they had blamed him getting a high score on not meeting the criteria)
she backtracked immediately, blaming the first psych, we eventually got the dx although they said PDD, the psych,s boss recommended he go to the independent school and he got in.
the private psych phoned the nhs psych to ask why they said PDD and Not AS when he knew full well ds IS AS and she told him she had been prevented from doing so as AS means more provision.
it stinks it really doews, the only way to get what your child deserves is to fight them at their own game, as someone else said get your mp,ipsea or whoever on board and kick off big style.