I was hoping to get perspectives on our situation. We are in the draft EHCP stage for my son who is starting Reception in Sep 2023. He is on the ASD pathway, has language delay and faces struggles when environment gets busy at his pre-school.
The small mainstream school with an ASD resource base that we think is ideal for my son is in another borough (B). Our Borough A has consulted with this school which said that all spaces in the resource base have now been allocated. I know that we can potentially appeal this, but I wonder how difficult would that be given that it is not in our Borough. It also made me doubt pursuing this appeal as the school itself is quite far from home (30 min drive).
Our alternative is the local mainstream school nearest to us--it appears to be very inclusive and Head Teacher and SenCo are very supportive. (This is also the school that my son has been allocated to prior to getting the EHCP). However, as the school has 60 children/per year and no resource base, I fear that the busy environment (as compared to the small school with a resource base) will just cause struggles for my son later on.
So my thoughts are whether to:
a) pursue the appeal for a space in the resource base in the smaller school in the other borough;
b) take a chance with the local mainstream school (with all the benefits of being local) and wait to see if it works out for my son (with a view to pursue the other school in the next EHCP review if it doesn't)?
Our Borough itself no longer have schools with ASD resource base as it's setting up a new special school for ASD children (starting at Year 1) but I fear that my son is unlikely to get a place next year as his EP report suggests 'mainstream' setting.
Hoping to get some perspectives from your experiences. Thanks!