My DS is 10 and is autistic. He is demand avoidant and possibly ADHD but assessment was inconclusive. My biggest issue is that he says he is BORED all the time. I suggest many things for him to do, trips out, games, baking, movies, park etc etc but his knee jerk reaction is an immediate no. He has a low attention span so quickly tires of something that has been done once. He loves thrills and excitement like being chased or winning over others. He HATES losing and this is an extreme trigger for him. I’m at a loss for what to do. After school he berates me for feeling bored and I’ve tried to address this by organising some ready made options so he can choose a from selection of activities but he immediately rejects this. If I suggest exciting things that is new, he agrees readily but the next time, he won’t agree “as it’s boring”. It’s impossible to keep thinking up new things. We do agree to repeat some activities but only after he has his angry outburst of refusal and he’s worked off the frustration by fighting with his siblings/screaming etc etc. I’m so exhausted. Does anyone have an suggestions?