My son is autistic with GDD and we had applied for a place at a resource base in a mainstream primary school. Our offer has come back for a specialist school. We had visited the school but decided on a resource base because of the opportunity to access mainstream lessons eventually.
The specialist school has very small class sizes and lots of support but my husband is concerned that it might be limiting educationally as all the children will be working at below usual primary level. The school has said our son will likely be one of the most able in the class, but he does have significant communication, interaction & personal care needs.
There are 3 schools in the borough for autistic children and this is the one with the lowest level of need, so it's not a case of all autistic children being in one school, irrespective of need.
My instinct is that too much support is better than not enough, but I am really struggling because it seems like such an important decision, so I would welcome any thoughts from those who have some experience in this area.