Please help, as I am clueless!
DD is 2.4 and has global developmental delay. (No known cause, probably genetic, tests on hold while various NHS trusts repeatedly lose our blood samples). She has been looked after at home to date, but we are thinking about nursery from this autumn, when she will be 3. She will clearly need some sort of additional help, but I have absolutely no idea what I should be asking for.
We going to start visiting nurseries in the next couple of weeks, so am trying to make sure I’m prepared and ask the right questions etc etc. At the moment she has essentially no extra support with anything - maybe ok while she’s with us but not fine for nursery.
I’ve got myself really worked up about it all - because she has no diagnosis, it seems almost impossible to get any advice about what we ought to be doing. As a baby there seemed to be something terribly wrong physically (abnormal movements, couldn’t eat, no head control, constantly stiff and arched, screamed non-stop) so she had loads of referrals (genetics, endocrinology, neurology, metabolics, SALT for feeding, physio…) and investigations (eeg, mri, skeletal survey…)
She has made amazing progress since then (which is fabulous, don’t get me wrong!) but most of the services she used to see have discharged her. She is now just under genetics and community paediatrics (1 appt a year), and are waiting on a re-referral to SALT as despite quite good receptive language, she has absolutely no speech.
Any advice very welcome - sorry I am so ignorant. I know I need to get it sorted, just feel a bit overwhelmed by it all and can’t seem to get up off my a* and start.