Firstly apologies for putting it on this board, I’ve tried on the sn teens and young adult board but there’s no traffic over there and therefore no replies.
dd had a late diagnoses at at 16, she struggled all her life, in the past year we’ve had bereavement (her beloved stepdad died), she’s had a relationship break up and she’s now taken a year out of uni where she was doing quite well both socially and course work wise.She had plans of learning to drive, getting a job and seemed happy about being home again.
however The last month she’s refused to do anything unless she wants to. She’s stopped her driving lessons, has refused to look for a job saying she can’t because it’s too much out of her comfort zone. She’s ill, she has a he ache that day, she’s tired etc. she won’t leave the house unless she comes in the car with me (although she did go down to South Wales over the weekend to see a friend, she was fine with that)she just plays in her computer all day and gets arsy when I ask her for help round the house, I work full bloody time!
she won’t apply for universal credit saying she can’t be bothered, I’ve offered to help her but no she just screams at me to fuck off
.she is on antidepressants and also she’s gone very childlike, she gets obsessions with things, always has but now she is obsessed with a kids cartoon programme, has bought teddies and will take them wherever she goes in public, and strokes them and wants to dress like this particular character.
im at a loss tbh. I’m torn between being very worried about her and wanting to shake her, she’s bright and funny, articulate and we’ve had some brilliant conversations but the heck do I do?
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blackheartsgirl · 08/09/2022 09:26
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