DS 11 started mainstream secondary this week, it's still way too early to tell how it'll go.
He was diagnosed with autism aged 5, likely undiagnosed adhd, sensory processing difficulties, severe anxiety, ocd and learning disabilities - he is 4 years behind at school. The anxiety and ocd has only been an issue for the last year or two since covid so more recent. He has an EHCP and has done since pre school age. Despite his struggles he's pretty sociable and enjoyed being in a mainstream environment, he went to mainstream primary with a high level of support, mainly 1:1.
I was never told that he may need to go to a sen school or a unit, it was just said that he'll go to mainstream. I was never told how far behind he was at school - year 2 level to be precise but I've only found this out in the last couple months, too late to look at new schools or consider sen - my local LA sen team seem to be taking a long time to sort things for a lot of children and general lack of spaces in sen schools. Despite struggling academically he is quite switched on otherwise and has a good understanding of different topics and now to behave, social expectations etc. He's generally not disruptive in lessons. He's always had a simpler level of the same work given with help from TA. On paper he coped well in mainstream primary but with a lot of support, take that support away and we will not be in a good place.
at times his EHCP has not been updated thoroughly, mainly because the previous senco at his primary was incompetent. The newer one was fab but time was pushing at this point. Also, delays with the sen team!!
no mainstream secondary in my area offer full time 1:1 with the same Ta. They tend to have a different ta in each lesson if available
but after the senco at his new school met with his primary summer in the summer term she said they will increase this but I have been having a nightmare getting hold of her. His form Tutor has been amazing and they have said they have a full plan for Charlie but I have not really been informed on all the details. They haven't really been doing proper lessons yet, so lessons starting will be a massive eye opener for them I think. He has major academic struggles and can't do much without support. He doesn't really need support during break or lunch, it's just the academic side and emotional support.
I sent him to the school j thought had the best provision and now I'm not so sure.
I have had to fight for the right transport - wanted him to use a publicly utilised bus.
but is there any success stories with asd children and learning disabilities in mainstream?
should I be considering looking at specialist schools? I know it's not as simple as just moving over. I know someone who's been waiting for over a year to try move her daughter to a specialist school.
advice? What if it goes horribly wrong?