Hello,
It’s been a really stressful and very emotional year so far for us and it seems as though things are not getting any better. We have three children, two DD’s (ages 6 and 3) and one DS (aged 4). Our 4 year old DS and 6 year old DD both have a diagnosis of ASD. It’s been extremely hard for us as we are still trying to process everything concerning both DC. It just feels like we’re in some kind of whirlwind as everything has just happened so fast. DD got her diagnosis last year and DS this year. I really didn’t believe our Paediatrician when she said that ASD presents differently in both girls and boys but now I can honestly say that it’s so true and I do indeed believe her.
DD has an EHCP and has recently had an early Interim Review organised by the school. We are told that she is not making any progress academically and is working significantly below her peers in all areas of the curriculum. The school really have gone above and beyond for DD with regards to her EHCP but unfortunately they can no longer do anything for her and have informed the LA of this however, as per usual the LA are just being a complete and utter nightmare, with DD’s EHCP Co-ordinator stating the following in a correspondence which was sent to the school’s SEN Co-ordinator:
“I know it is mums wish for an Education Learning Provision (ELP) from September 2022, however due to spaces available in our ELPs, parents are not always awarded the schools they wish. In addition to this, If it is felt by professionals that a mainstream school can meet the needs of a child, then we will direct a mainstream school to take. If mum is unhappy about this decision she can then appeal.”
“We currently have a list of children needing ELP places and as confirmed by the head of Education Psychologist (EP), there are no statutory reports that indicate a specialist setting is needed. In comparison to other pupils even if a space did become available in this borough or another, she would still not be given it.”
We have since written several letters of complaint to the Director of the department regarding the whole processes of DD’s EHCP and have requested the immediate re-allocation of a new Co-ordinator, as we are just not seeing eye to eye. We have since been told that one has been appointed but we are yet to hear from them. The Director of the department is just awful, no response to any of our correspondences. We are constantly being ignored.
We are just so disgusted and disappointed, what an absolute disgrace to say the very least, I mean why on earth would she STILL NOT BE GIVEN A PLACE??! Considering the fact that they have received a huge amount of “statutory reports” that very strongly evidence
the significant difficulties and complex needs that DD is presenting with as voiced by all professionals whom are involved with DD, but of course we all know that unfortunately it’s ALWAYS about the funding when it comes to the LA, hence we have now exercised the right of Appeal at the Tribunal.
I would be most appreciative of any recommendations for really good Solicitor Firms, specialising in SEN Education Law.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read and for all advice given.