School had asked me to get ds assessed for adhd for behaviour issues. Both nhs and private rejected it all before any assessment based on initial forms and quick chat but both said maybe go down the route of autism. The private psychiatrist we spoke to yesterday had both me and my son there at the same time so my son now knows everything which I was keeping from him before as felt that she would struggle with processing all these possibilities which is exactly what’s happening now. Has million and one questions and can’t stop talking about it. I can tell his emotions are all over the place. I honestly not sure if we should dig deep into this to make things worse. Feel a bit disheartened by all this when first I thought going through this can only be a good thing…