My DS is 9 and has been referred to the community paediatrician for an assessment for ASD. He was referred over in December last year and I called today to find out the timescale I might be waiting for his appointment and was told they can't tell me but it will be a long time, definitely months and not weeks.
Is anyone else further along this process and can tell me how long it was until the first appointment and then what to expect? My DS is struggling with a lot of things but mainly a lot of issues and anxiety around school. The school haven't made any adjustments for him and, although they are good with him when he is upset, there seems to be no attempt at understanding the triggers and helping to minimise these. I feel that a diagnosis would make it easier as it would be in black and white but seems like it will be a long time coming. I'm feeling so down today after another massive meltdown going in this morning and I just don't know what else I can do to get things moving for him.