DS (6) has been permanently excluded from his mainstream school. We don't plan to fight or appeal the decision. It was inevitable and we don't want him in mainstream, we have been fighting for special school for many months and if anything, this could help us get him there sooner.
There will be a hearing at which the head will present the schools case and the governors will decide whether to uphold or overturn it. I can't decide whether to attend. I think I will find it very upsetting and become emotional, which will make the whole thing so much more difficult for everyone. This seems almost cruel given we don't disagree with the decision. But, if I don't go, what if I miss out on something significant?
I'd really like to hear from anyone who's been in this situation - did you attend and if so, how was it?