I did. And it's true. Don't pretend it isn't in many cases. That doesn't make it right.
It isn’t true in many cases. It is never in the child’s best interest to not follow the law. You only have to look at the threads on MNSN and even some on the main boards to see there are many DC unlawfully excluded when it isn’t in the child’s best interests, but is done for the convenience of the school &/or LA.
Some children struggle very much in school and need extra support to remain there. If there is no support available then it isn't right to subject a distressed child to being somewhere he/she doesn't feel safe. Why would you think it is?
I haven’t said it is right for a distressed child to be in school. In fact my first post catered for what to do if the OP felt DS couldn’t attend full time. But nowhere does OP say her child is distressed. And it does not excuse illegal exclusions, as I said in my first post, in that case the LA should be providing alternative provision and OP can enforce that right. However, ‘no support available’ is often a line schools and LAs use when what they mean is it isn’t convenient or it’s expensive and they don’t want to when the pupil could cope if given the correct SEN provision.
It isn't discrimination to not want a child with special needs to be caused distress.
It is discrimination to illegally exclude pupils. It is discrimination not provide the child with a full time education, which is not the same thing as full time school. OP does not say she believes her child is distressed and cannot cope with full time school. Sadly schools do illegally exclude when the child would benefit from attending full time at school. Nevertheless, my first post did cater for if the OP feels her DS cannot attend full time. Where it would also be discrimination, this time by the LA, in not providing the equivalent of a full time education, which DS is entitled to.
If a child is violent and attacking other children and staff then it is unsafe for that child to remain in school without support. Not that I'm saying this is the case with OP's child but it is common.
As I said previously, then the school need to follow procedure, not illegally exclude. There is no excuse for illegal exclusions regardless of the child’s needs. If a child is displaying VCB to that extent the school should follow procedure, not go off-piste by illegally excluding.
What is your practical solution when you acknowledge that the law is being ignored?
I have posted my practical solutions for enforcing OP DS’s rights in my previous posts, especially my first post, whether that is enforcing DS’s right to attend school full time or if she doesn’t believe DS can attend full time.
Nowhere have I said it's acceptable, yet you seem to imply I have.
That’s because your posts are coming across as though you think it is acceptable.