DC (3) has shown signs of ASD since infancy. Each time I queried these, I was told by HV they were 'normal' and/or that DC would outgrow these 'quirks'- they haven't. Lots of research and information gathering later and I think DC would benefit from a Paediatrician assessment to find out what on earth is going on. The current waiting lists for Paeds referrals are 18 months. I can't afford to wait that long sadly. Anyone have any recommendations of someone they've seen who actually listened and tried to understand?