Hi @MissHavershamReturns and everyone else. So sorry for my long silence. I often think about this thread but feel I need to re-read it to participate fully, then it feels too overwhelming to try and rejoin! Life has been so busy recently, but finally found time tonight to update myself 😊
It's really good to hear all your experiences, good and not-so-good. Our experience is as follows:
DS10 has been on Medikinet XL for about 6 weeks now I think? He started on 5mg daily and has gradually moved up to 20mg daily. I'm finding the effects difficult to fully assess. He has never been obviously physically hyperactive - fidgety but not full of energy as though driven by a motor. We sought diagnosis because of him being easily distracted at school, struggling to maintain focus/stay on task in lessons and finding it very difficult to organise himself (we have to micromanage his homework schedule, any projects etc).
On meds, he is not noticeably different at home but there have been occasions where he has seemed more focused for certain things (like his SATs revision). I suspect his meds have worn off by the time he is due to do his homework, but then he hasn't had any homework since SATs a few weeks ago, so this is difficult to assess.
We recently had the first feedback from school since starting meds, and the general comments were that he is more focused and stays on task better. Although one English teacher who tends to have him for the last lesson of the day, has commented that he seems quiet and a bit withdrawn. Perhaps he will need a top-up dose at lunchtime?
He has occasionally seemed a bit quiet and withdrawn at home on the day of a dose change, but that doesn't persist as he acclimatises to the new dose.
His appetite is definitely affected, which worries us as he is already shorter than average and do we don't want his growth to be restricted. He loves tuna and sweetcorn sandwiches and so has one every day for breakfast with his meds, to keep his protein intake up. We don't have any control over what he has for his school dinner, but are trying to ensure a good protein and veg intake at every dinner (rather than too much carbohydrate). I don't think he drinks enough water at school, which will affect his cognitive function, but again, we can't do more than remind him in the mornings.
I'm not sure what the ongoing plan is at the moment. I will update more later as need to sleep now! Can also update on my own experiences of trying ADHD meds sometime if that would help? (Quick summary: currently on XL methylphenidate 18mg. Improves my focus, but nothing life-changing so far. Will be changing to lisdexamfetamine (Elvanse) soon - hoping for better focus on it, especially when external noise at work).