I posted on here before when my ds was on a stimulant but it was a while ago, I just wanted to update, I thought it might be useful to others where a medication doesn’t work / aggravates the symptoms etc. I’ve trawled the internet for years so I thought if the post can help one person!!
My 8 year old ds has a severe adhd diagnosis, (asd, moderate learning disability and anxiety etc) he goes to a specialist school, his specialist school and CAMHS said his adhd is at the top end of the scale they are used to seeing, his special school said they don’t have the expertise to deal with ds adhd and they have all sorts of kids, ds is in an autism and adhd class there, so made me really panic that he genuinely was one of a kind and nothing would help him.
Methylphenidate for 8 months made him worse in my opinion. His anxiety was intensified and his mood swings were horrific. School complained every day about behaviour, the emails I got were relentless and the phone calls were at least twice weekly, and he was on part time hours (in SS!)
He’s been on atomoxetine (9 weeks) and he’s getting on great. Hes only on 18mg too, that needs to go up next month. (He’s also on sertraline for anxiety but only started this 3 weeks ago so don’t think that’s in the system properly yet)
He’s had star of the week 2 weeks running, we’ve been getting postcards home regarding good behaviour. (This is unheard of for ds and he’s about to go in to year 4! he’s always really misbehaved at school since nursery age!) his teachers are absolutely delighted.
I had his annual review last week and they couldn’t speak more highly of him. Last annual review for reference was mostly spent talking about ds smearing his shit on all the class furniture!!!!
At home I don’t think the changes are as drastic, but his mood is overall more levelled out, he is still misbehaving but I think that’s his age! We went strawberry picking at the weekend and rather than him run 4 fields away and me shout like a banshee and snap my ankle chasing him 🤣 he picked his own full punnet and stayed beside me and was fantastic in listening. We then went to the park for an ice cream and he played on the park which he can usually only do if no children are on there, but when we went there were a few playing, and he didn’t push any 2 year olds off the slide which was a regular occurrence before!
One thing Ds very experienced specialist teacher said to me which is very worth keeping in mind. The medication only helps them learn strategies, it’s not ‘oh take the medicine and all is solved’ it’s just a tool in aiding the child to learn how to behave. I always keep that thought at the front of my thinking!
I think with ds, or I’m hoping now with ds, he can now start to learn all that we have been trying to teach him instead of banging our heads off a brick wall!