@KnottyAuty
Ds has got moderate autism / severe adhd, moderate learning disability, he’s got horrendous anxiety too, it wasn’t so horrendous (just moderately so) but methylphenidate has exaggerated it, he’s really controlling, (was controlling previously, but not to this extent) v demanding and honestly sounds awful but he’s been utterly unbearable to live around this past few months.
He’s been like a different child, gone from mostly happy (and totally nuts!) to the most miserable child, cries all the time, never wants to leave the house, if we get him out he just wants to be back at home, hates visitors, his nana who he loves he doesn’t want her to come, he’s controlling everyone at school like puppets on a string, wants the staff to stand or sit in certain places, say set phrases to him or ww3 occurs, all driven by his anxiety, practically scared of his own shadow, school have been having lots of problems with it all, then home life, he’s really agitated and violent, more meltdowns this last 8 months than ever before. but things had gotten worse to the point he can’t stand anyone talking now, unless you’re talking to him, if you talk amongst yourself he attacks who ever is talking. His tolerance for anything is basically zero. He can’t even stand the noise you make when you breathe! 😅
Been telling CAMHS for months, but they kept upping the dose saying it will settle when he’s on the correct dosage. I have been close to not managing anymore loads of times. Then they wanted to add fluoxetine into the mix for anxiety which I was happy desperate to try, was just in the process of getting that sorted to start, but a psychiatrist has reviewed everything this week and immediately stopped him from the methylphenidate. Saying this has exaggerated everything (which I’ve been saying all along!)
anyway now trying another. Thank god he’s off that!
wanted to answer honestly as it’s not been the god send we had hoped for.
he tried the XL version a few months ago and that was awful too!
we have swapped to non stimulant type so I’m literally crossing my fingers and everything I have that it works x