I have been waiting all day to find time to post o this thread, to say a HUGE thank you to all who have contributed.
My DS started medication on Sunday. Today was his 4th day and last night was really hard. I was up a lot with him in the night but reading this thread really really helped. Thank you all.
My DS is 8 and has basically had a terrible time at school. Covid for yrR and yr1. Job shares in yr2 and a real lack of understanding have basically meant only this year did his teacher come out and suggest the problems might be more than just 'silliness'. We knew along and it pushed us to get a diagnosis. We went privately as we knew we would try medication and honestly we felt we owed it to him. 3 more years for an NHS diagnosis meant 3 years of struggling. So we got a credit card and will forgo the holidays this year.
And wow, so far I am so glad we did. Our little boy is already seeing the benefits. He's had 3 good days at school and he said 'is it just supposed to be this easy? Is my ADHD why I could never get as much done?' to which we told him, yep basically, you have been working so much harder than everyone else. He is so unbelievably relieved.
So anyway, medication. He's on Equaysm XL 10mg and that's been absolutely fine. After school he's a little livelier than usual but he's always been ok at home so we can cope. We can definitely tell it wears off a out 2pm, he says he can feel it from about 1 so it lasts from 7-2 which isn't bad.
Yesterday we added in a 5mg Medikinet top up at 3pm as he had a club to go to and the Dr suggested it would be good. It was awful. He became almost anxiously aggressive? Not in his actions but his mannerism. It was how he used to be when tired & deeply unregulated and was very rare.
I wasn't sure if we should do the top up again. But reading this thread made me see that these side effects can sometimes just take a few days to settle, so we topped up again today and he was pretty much fine - definitely more focused (he read 3 chapters of a book through choice!!!!) but he's definitely been a bit more emotional and sensitive to change.
I'm catching up with school next week so I let the Dr know how they have found him, but from what I can tell it's already helping!
For reference DS also has dyspraxia and possible ASD (NHS pathway for that one) but the ASD is tricky to spot and subtle - he presents more how girls with ASD tend to present.
We are also at the same time doing work with a therapist on his retained reflexes and wow that's helped HUGELY. If you have Amazon Prime go now and watch the documentary Attention Please, it's amazing!!!