Hi wonder if anyone can give me advice. My now 5 year old son has always been a bit of a challenge ie tantrums etc but since he has started school I have begun to worry something is wrong. When he comes out of school I say hi are you okay and he shouts don’t talk to me mummy all the other kids seem so happy to see there parents also he is always been a fussy eater but it’s ridiculous now he only wants to eat a cheese wrap and cucumber i don’t no if it’s about texture because he will eat bananas and yogurts etc but no sauces. Also if I take him to a party he is fine while he is there but as soon as it’s over he screams don’t want to go home has a huge tantrum and I have to carry him out and he is the only kid that does it all the other parents stare at like I’m a bad mum . Also in shops when we are queuing he goes mad “don’t want to waiting mummy etc” or even if I stop the car at a red light he screams mummy go hurry up just go. He is so loving and loves cuddles but he has a tantrum over anything he whines about everything for example if he can’t find a toy or if I don’t have the right breakfast . I forgot his umbrella after school once and he sat in the floor screaming his in reception I just feel his to old to be acting like this and none of the other child do . School have told me he is behind he hates learning to write goes mad if he makes a mistake and says I can’t do it and will refuse and his concentration is bad . I have seen him play with children he is very touchy feely and often think he winds the kids up because he don’t leave them alone . I’m just confused is there something underlining . I have seen a doctor that just says his a boy his just immature I think it’s more than this . Everyday out he ruins. We can never go for a meal because he will scream in the restaurant don’t want to sit down . I’m just drained and so tired sorry probably made loads of spelling mistakes. Just need help.