when will you need to apply for schools for DC2?
Ah, brokenbottles you've asked another key question here, this is another part of our thinking. DC2 will start reception in Sep 2022. If we do the normal admission route, it will be local MS schools close to the new house. Of which, the obvious one is the same - potential new MS for DC1. Applications by early Jan.
Re EHCP for DC2 - I honestly don't know. Nursery have said they will apply for a NA as a matter of course but expect it to be turned down. I personally think that's a bit computer says no, and if we think DC2 needs an EHCP, we'll appeal a refusal to assess.
But I don't know yet what support DC2 will need in school. My instinct is it may depend what personality of teacher tries to work with DC2 and how much they understand/not demand avoidance and high anxiety. My gut says if it goes wrong, it's going to be ugly. But it doesn't have to go wrong if everyone is on board to make it go right. And I think we're better at navigating the system due to our experience with DC1.
If DC1 goes to potential new MS and we have a good relationship with SenCo, my idea would be to ask the SenCo if we can pay for one day a term of a private specialist teacher who knows PDA to work with the class teacher for DC2. We get DLA now for DC2 which I think is about £2k over course of year, I think this would cover 3 days of a specialist teacher over the year. It would be more support than the school would get through LA funded autism specialist service.
Ellie thank you for those links and for your kind wishes. Oddly, DH redundancy means he's able to attend all these meetings and visits with me and it's a big help.
Yes you're right, I wouldn't have posted on here if I was happy with the options on the table. It's been extremely helpful to talk it through with you both and DH and I are now clear it's not best for DC1 to do a trial of MS in current school. And we want one move, to a long term placement. And if we think that means tribunal, so be it. Equally, if we think the potential MS is right for DC1, we'll request that without any talk of a trial period.
We would be eligible for the legal aid and when we spoke to Ipsea I think they mentioned ?Simpson Miller? I have it written down somewhere.
I read somewhere that legal aid can also help fund new Indy reports if needed for tribunal, so presumably we could get an Indy OT report if necessary.