Do these happen?
Background: ds, 8, yr 4, started off at m/s private school, now in private supported unit (academically able, social/communication difficulties, no diagnosis though we're going to do another assessment (and, because of no diagnosis, no statement - might pursue that again too)) with idea of being fed back into m/s private. Likeliest m/s private has now said they'd take him only with a full-time shadow, which we'd have to pay for on top.
So I was wondering if whether state m/s would allow parents to provide their own shadow. Has anyone heard of this?