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Is My Child On the Spectrum?

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LadyBugDots · 08/06/2021 00:31

Hello,

I was wondering if someone could offer some insight on my 36 month old child whom I’m concerned is on the spectrum. To avoid an overly long essay, below are the main points:

Concerns:

Late to point at 18 months to show and around 21/22 months to request, still points to request infrequently, doesn’t nod head often

Hand leads often to get us to go somewhere

Visually stims by running and looking to the side, not with her eyes but actually looks to the side using her neck, does it daily throughout the day totalling 1 to 2 minutes

Walks on her toes 40% of the time although it depends a bit on that surface and wether she’s wearing shoes

Learned «you» late at 33 months and still reverses it with «I»

Sometimes «tv talks» by quoting Peppa Pig shows although it appears to be decreasing

A handful when out, not as compliant as I feel she should be and other kids appear although follows direction well.

Positives

Meeting milestones for 36 months
Passes screeners, ASQ, ASQ SE, QChat with good scores

Has around 800 words and can have a short conversations of 2-4 exchanges, asks who, what, where and why questions a bit, answers them as well

Receptive appears ok, can answer agent questions «what animal flies?», her name, gender, age etc...follow two step commands involving going to another floor of the house to get something or ask a family member to perform a task (ie ask her big brother to kill a spider if I tell her to)

Points to show and looks back, gives, shares well, reaches and waves at people all unprompted

Prétend play is good, makes toys talk to each other and has little scenarios

Potty trained for peeing completely, must be brought for BMs

Likes other children although has not played with them much yet due to not being in daycare

Sleeps and eats fine although not a fan of veggies

Knows all colours, shapes and alphabet

Thanks in advance for input.

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LadyBugDots · 08/06/2021 00:37

I forgot to mention that her sentences are up to 14 words, average 6 words

Affectionate

Likes to be responsible by helping me with chores such as emptying the dryer and takes it upon herself to water the plants

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landofgiants · 08/06/2021 11:02

I'm not sure anyone is going to be able to tell you based on what you have written. The TV talk/echolalia can be a fairly normal phase in language development. Have you discussed you discussed your concerns with anyone? Health visitor/GP? She sounds lovely.

LadyBugDots · 08/06/2021 13:57

I spoke with her doctor about it in October but she didn’t refer us and just said to bring her back if the I had more or persistent concerns.

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LadyBugDots · 08/06/2021 13:59

I was under the impression that tv talk was a significant red flag so thank you for your comment on that.

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azimuth299 · 08/06/2021 15:15

I don't think there's really enough information here to say either way. A lot of what you say could just be due to her personality, but could also be due to autism. Your GP said to bring her back if your concerns continued, and it's been eight months since then, so get her back if you're still concerned.

LadyBugDots · 08/06/2021 15:30

I agree, I obviously am still concerned so she should be seen by her doctor again.

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