Hi, my beautiful baby girl is 5 weeks old and is an absolute angel, she’s so well behaved and honestly when she was born me and my partner got stronger and the love in our house was unreal. It was all lovely. Then his other daughter who he hasn’t seen for a long time was suddenly let by his ex to come to the house after 9 months of not letting her. So basically I feel like the ex has clearly done this on purpose, she’s got my partner done by the police for harassment and caused a lot of drama for him and myself over the last year and half. We used to have his little girl when she was 1 and she was a little bit behind where she should be and was extremely clingy but we managed and did lovely things with her. His ex has now got a referral for autism for the little girl who is now 2 1/2 and tbh I totally agree that she has some sort of issues as she has regressed massively. I am a teacher and have a degree in early years and even I’m struggling. When she comes to us she screams the entire time, she comes across extremely anxious, she is unsettled, she can’t talk at all so we can’t communicate with her. My poor partner is stressed because he knows it’s not a nice situation and I’m struggling because my focus is the baby so I’m not as involved with her as I used to be because his daughter needs 1 if not 2 people as her needs are that severe. I think my partner feels like I don’t care about her and I really do it’s just difficult as I don’t have a relationship with this child anymore and at the minute it’s impossible to try and build that relationship because of her behaviour. Has anyone else experienced something similar to this and does anyone have any advice to make this a more pleasant and less stressful experience for everyone involved?