Our DS is 11 and has had a diagnosis for a few years. It's manageable at home, other than wearing patience somewhat having to repeat instructions (auditory processing probably in play here - it just doesn't sink in). We have advice from ed psych on behavioral strategies.
Paediatrician seems very keen to try ritalin but we think side effects could outweigh gains.
At what point did you decide that your child would benefit from meds? What were the factors in your decision and did it have the desired effect and help the child in their daily/school life?